One of the biggest questions that runs through a lot of people’s minds during decluttering is, “what if I need this one day?” Even I’ve battled with such obstacles from time to time. Those “just in case items” seem necessary to hold onto because you think you are saving money. “What if I need this quesadilla maker on the off chance I want to make a quesadilla?” “What if we go to Paris in the near future – this beret [ i’ve never worn before] may come in handy at that moment!” “What if the person who gifted me that item [ I never use] questions where it is when they visit?” The scenarios could go on & on. And if you let this category of item get to you, you’ll find yourself in the midst of becoming hoarders.
The Scarcity Mindset
Sometimes the reason we develop clutter is through fear. We are afraid we won’t be able to attain said item again in the future. Many times this correlates with socioeconomic status & the growth from lower to higher income. It’s a subconscious fear you won’t be this well off forever. So, you decide to hold onto things with the notion you won’t be able to attain it later. But regardless of your socioeconomic status, everyone should follow the 20×20 rule instead.
What is the 20×20 Rule?
If you can replace the item in 20 minutes with $20 or less, you should probably donate or sell said item. From my experience, anytime I finally get rid of something, I rarely regret or need a replacement in the future. For instance, over last summer we hosted an engagement party at our home. We purchased a bunch of paper plates, foil pans to hold the food selection & plastic cups & utensils. We ended up only using not even half of the supplies, so I stored it in a cabinet for a while. This May will be a year since we hosted said party & we haven’t used the items since. The paper plates have begun to yellow & quite honestly in our town home, we don’t have the best storage space. So, although I thought, “we could use this for our next get together or party.” I ended up donating what was still useable to a local shelter. I’d much rather let those items go now & repurchase supplies when we do decide to host another party. Now, we have plenty of space for other necessities in this cabinet.
Doesn’t That Waste Money?
A lot of the reason for hoarding is due to the thought of “saving money.” If you hold on to xyz now, you don’t have to spend money later. But what I found with the kept party supplies was, they became unusable over time. Nobody wants to use paper plates that are discolored or broken plastic utensils. Who’s to say, when a get together did arise, I wouldn’t have purchased new supplies anyway? I find, when we fill our home with clutter – we aren’t truly saving money. We are losing time & energy, we are purchasing storage bins to keep the clutter contained. We are purchasing more cleaning supplies to keep the chaos of our homes at bay. I’d much rather let go of the unused items & spend a little cash in the future than fill my home with unnecessary things.
Conclusion
Even though you may think you need to hold onto every little thing you decide to purchase. In reality – there is a slim chance you’ll ever use that just in case item anyway. Save your home from the clutter & finally let those items go. Do you still own any items that make you say, “will I need this one day?”
-B
Mind. Beauty. Simplicity 
I am terrible at this but also have this strong compulsion to let things go (it goes in cycles). I have a rule that it I haven’t used it al all in a certain amount of time it has to be recycled, gifted or donated. We moved recently so my husband and I had to declutter and sort through the stuff we were holding onto for “one day” — it was eye-opening how much of it there was. Great post!
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moving is such a great time to go through your belongings and determine what you really need. i can totally understand the “goes in cycles” type mentality. thanks for reading this post.
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Great post! The 20×20 rule is one I have not heard before but will definitely be using if from now on.
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glad you like this rule & implement it in your lives. thanks for reading.
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The 20×20 rule is a rule I need to try when having a declutter, I’m someone who does keep stuff in case I might need it one day! x
Lucy | http://www.lucymary.co.uk
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hope it helps! thanks for reading š
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I am so bad about this type of decluttering! I hang on to things like paper plates and paper napkins; just odd things I think it is beneficial to save so I do not need to buy them again when the time comes. You are right in saying the time rarely ever comes, and I love the idea that donating puts “what if I need this one day” items into the hands of people who will use them NOW!
Thanks for sharing. š
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Yes! I love donating for that very reason. There are so many people who could use it at that very moment instead of collecting dust. Thanks for reading!
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I really love this 20/20 idea! I have a lot of stuff that, if Iām being honest, I always say āone dayā but years have passed + itās still unused. I have 2 rooms that need to be cleaned/sorted through. Trying this this week + see how it goes! Thanks.
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Good luck and hope this helps you. Thanks for reading.
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I always used to think about things I kept, the anxiety would kick in, thinking what if I need it. I am trying to work on this and I have been doing a bit better. Thank you for sharing your tips!
Lauren x
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Thatās good youāve gotten better with this. Thanks for reading.
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Funny to read this today because I had this exact conversation with my sister-in-law yesterday. She said sheās afraid to declutter too much because sheās worried about post-pandemic supply issues and that we wonāt be able to get stuff. I told her my view is if Iām holding on to something I donāt use ājust in caseā, I can get rid of it because if I had forgotten I had it, or hadnāt used it in years, I clearly donāt need it.
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Yes! plus sometimes when we hold onto things, they become old and or damaged. Which causes us to not even want to use that item in the future. Itās best to just get things when we truly need them.
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Love your post. Iām debating selling my vintage fine china from Germany. Who uses china anymore???
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Ikr?! My husband and I had this same conversation where we didnāt need fine China. It depends if youād like to display it or not. You could get good money for them if you sold them? Do you use it?
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I havenāt used them in 12 years. They were packed in a bin under the RV. Now, I have them all washed and sitting on our small kitchen table and looking at them, I donāt know if I have the heart to sell them. My mom bought them for me for my Hope Chest when I was 16.
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You should def use them then! š
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Iād never heard of this 20×20 rule but it sounds like something I could really use. Iām always scared of wasting money for no real reason and I end up getting new stuff anyways.
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hope the 20×20 rule inspires you š thanks for reading.
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Great idea. I’ll do some spring cleaning this weekend and donate those stuff I haven’t used in a year or more.
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I am guilty of this, especially when it comes to clothes or gifts. I really like the idea of the 20 20 rule for getting rid of stuff. You are so right, you actually waste time and energy holding on to things you may never use. Decluttering can help free up mental clutter too from overthinking about these unused items. Great post. Thanks for sharing.
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Glad you enjoyed the read!
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I live in an SRO (Single Room Occupancy) and one of the rules is that no hoarding is allowed in the small spaces people have to live. The reason is it’s a fire hazard. So you can see that there are times when hoarding is a positive DANGER.
— Catxman
http://www.catxman.wordpress.com
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Didnāt think about that type of scenario
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Im terrible when it comes to the āwhat if i need this one dayā type of clutter. Every time i clean i actually and sometimes need something and then i get upset that i threw it out. I definitely need to try these tips out.
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i can see how that can happen. i guess my advice, would be to change your mindset and ask yourself why you think you need said item. thanks for reading! and hope these tips inspire you.
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This is something I’ve really struggled with! I hadn’t heard of the 20×20 rule before but it’s such a great idea, I’m definitely going to start using it. I’m actually moving out soon so I’m due a big declutter and I know this will really help then! Thank you so much for sharing x
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moving is a great time to do a massive declutter. it also helps from having to pack more boxes than necessary. thanks for reading!
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Great post! I love the 20×20 rule. It can be hard to let certain things go, but applying this rule allows you to look at things differently. Thanks for sharing!
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thanks for reading! hope the 20×20 rule inspires you.
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That’s a very good point about the item becoming unusable! I tend to find this happens with foodie items that I save for later.
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i’ve been there with foods as well. thanks for reading!
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I’ve not heard of the 20×20 rule but that’s such a good idea. I’m not too bad with hoarding but my family are terrible, so I’ll tell them about this and then stand back and watch!
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haha š good luck! hope they find inspiration in the 20×20 rule.
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Love this! My boyfriend is very much a “what if I need it one day” person and I’m not. I say if you haven’t thought about it in 3 months and it doesn’t hold any sentimental value then get rid of it!
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my husband is the same way. that’s a good motto to have. thanks for reading.
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Great post B! And something so many people struggle with. I don’t get this too often anymore but when I do, I commit to only keeping the item for 6 months and if I haven’t used it more than twice I let it go. If I only use it once every 6 months, then I can get rid of it and borrow from a friend if and when I need it in the future. My home doesn’t need to be a storage unit for things I don’t use often enough!
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i like that 6 month mindset. agreed! our homes def don’t need to be storage units for junk. thanks for reading!
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What a helpful post B – I adore my fiance but he’s definitely it saves money to keep things kind of guy! I’ve gotten better with kitchen and bathroom items and doing a bi-annual massive clear out if it hasn’t been touched in the past 6 months it likely should be gone. I like your 20/20 rule and have never heard of that.
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a bi-annual massive declutter is a great routine to have. hope the 20/20 rule inspires you even more. thanks for reading! š
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I couldn’t agree more with you! There is no reason holding items you have not used for a long time just in case. Most of the times this case never happens and we collect too much clutter. Thank you!
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you’re welcome! thanks for reading.
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Youāve given me a new way of looking at what Iām storing and what I should be just discarding! Thanks for sharing!
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thanks for reading!!
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I have a hard time letting go of things because I think I may need them in the future. Definitely gonna try the 20×20 rule. Great post!
TheQuietGirl | http://www.quietgirlblog.com
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I think we all have the habit of thinking this way. hope the 20×20 rule helps you. thanks for reading. š
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I love this post. I’m currently decluttering and I feel so refreshed for doing it. When I stock up I often forget I have the items and they go to waste.
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