One of my new found rediscovered hobbies is reading. I’ve always been a bookworm to some extent, but as I got older social media became the new thing & I felt like I didn’t have time for it anymore. I wanted to start this detox series with the topic of reading because I’ve discovered, you CAN make time for it – you just have to switch up your priorities. Reading has become my escape & way to find peace within this chaotic world. I read over five books a month now, share my reading wrap ups monthly [ here’s last’s months ] & even share amateur reviews on Instagram. Here’s Why Replacing Your Screen Time With Reading is Good For You:
You Stop The Habit of Mindless Scrolling
So many days wasted scrolling for hours on TikTok or Instagram – for what? To see a photo of someone’s sandwich? Another group photo of an event you weren’t invited to? Or better yet, just comparing someone else’s “perfect” feed to your own life. Instead, I make the conscious effort to put down the phone during those leisure moments & pick up a book [ or Kindle] instead. Stop getting so caught up in other people’s lives & escape to those fantasy stories or learn something new during that time. Even I discovered how much time you really have within a day. Now, instead of saying I scrolled through my news feed for four hours, I can say I read half a book.
You Become Smarter
It’s a scientific fact, reading makes you smarter. You can better comprehend your surroundings, you improve your interpersonal skills, you gain a sense of imagination, make better decisions both emotionally & rationally, improves your vocabulary, & even helps you reflect. I personally, love to read both fiction & nonfiction novels for this very reason. Although I love escaping to imaginary worlds, I also like improving myself with self help or learning a new task. There is endless knowledge within a bookshelf.
You Become More Creative
Tying in the imagination aspect to reading, this also helps those creative juices flow. Anytime I’m in a creative slump or having writers block – I’ll pick up a book to read. And most of the time, reading just a few chapters helps ignite that creativity for my own work once again. Reading books encourages inspiration & sometimes we need a little help within that department.
You Stop Comparing Your Life To Others
There are so many ways to distract the mind from comparing yourself to other people. Reading has been my favorite hobby to halt those bad habits. Who has time to worry about what other people are doing when you have beautiful stories to read about?
You Find Yourself Through The Stories
A bit cheesy but so true [ especially if you are one to annotate your books ]. I’ve found quotes to be so relatable to my personal struggles or experiences & sometimes other people’s words just explain your feelings far better than you ever could. Not only do certain lines resonate with me, but certain genres & storylines become a sense of my personality. We all have likes & dislikes when it comes to our TBR choices. I find myself leaning towards psychological thrillers, ghost stories & fantasies. But I also find comfort in the occasional romance. I had someone tell me, “you can tell a lot about a person by what they choose to read.” And I guess there is truth to that – unless you are like me & pick a lot of hyped bookstagram ones. But I think it’s a vulnerable thing to see what words people find beautiful.
You Become Happier
Rediscovering reading has made childhood Bee quite happy. It’s like a long lost love return to your life – at least for me. In this phase of healing, I try & find little moments & hobbies that bring a sense of joy to my days. And reading has been that saving grace. Even my husband notices this change in me & actually loves hearing me talk about books I’ve read & entices me with date nights to Barnes & Noble some. We even find ourselves reading on the couch together in pure silence just basking in the comfort of one another.
Comparing my lives to other people’s lives is exactly why I gave up watching TV shows! I was comparing my life to the ones I saw on TV!
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that’s so interesting. good for you.
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Thanks! Yeah, it’s weird. YouTube became my new version of TV.
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Lovely blog B!!! I’ve scheduled it in to be reblogged on my page for when I’m away on holiday next week 🙂
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thank you!! really appreciate it 🙂
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I’ve already wiped my phone of excess social media post-graduation and I *still* get stuck mindlessly scrolling. I always convince myself that it’ll be a nice break after work, but it just leaves me feeling worse! It definitely gets in the way of my creativity too. This creates a snowball affect between my creativity, productivity, and mood. This was a great reminder to put my phone down and pick up a cool book I’ve been meaning to read. Thank you for the lovely post! x
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i need to do a digital declutter soon! i totally know what you mean. it does seem like a nice break between the work day. thanks for reading 🙂
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You have no idea how much I agree with this post. I still don’t have Tik Tok downloaded on my phone because I’m aware how time-consuming it is to those who have it around me. I have absolutely nothing against it but that’s not me. I already spend enough time on Instagram and I’m working on spending less and less time on there. Great post x
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aww thanks! that’s impressive. tiktok is one of my favorites tbh. but it does suck time away. thanks for reading.
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I’m so happy that you got into reading again! It’s such a good feeling to be back doing something that was a huge part of my life when I was younger. Though I will say, I’m still jealous and comparing myself to others – they’re just fictional.🤷🏻♀️
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agreed! haha 🙂 that’s a good point. i meant comparing yourself to others online really
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I wholeheartedly agree. Reading is an amazing escape that comes with great benefits. And there is a genre for everyone!
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Yes to being happier and smarter 🥰
Not too sure about the imagination & creative part however.. ahaha I don’t really feel like my senses in that field are that great.
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i bring those two points up because from my experience when you read stories, you are using your imagination to picture these images into your mind. and i then find inspiration that way.
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Right yes!!
I had momentarily lost that capacity because of bad mental health 😅
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Everything you’ve stated in this post is so true. I’m a huge advocate for reading and try to read every day. Even if it’s just for 30 minutes. I always try to have a book with me to read when I need to pass time. Sharing this article because people need to read this!
Awesome stuff!
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I completely agree that social media can really cause you to compare yourself to other people – that’s a great point to include here.
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thanks for reading
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I don’t use any social media at all except for WordPress (is that social media?). And I found a great app called Forest, which locks your phone while planting a virtual tree. If you open your phone, the tree will die. But if you get through the time without checking, the app plants a virtual tree in your forest. Finally, the trees can be exchanged for planting a real tree once you acquire enough of them. I’m really enjoying it!
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that’s so interesting because as a blogger i thought i needed to be on all these other platforms to promote my work. the virtual tree sounds interesting as well. i’ll have to look into that.
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Reading is a must for me. I always have a few books on the go and can’t go to sleep without reading a few pages. Sometimes on holidays , I get to read also in the afternoon , not just at night. With a book we are never bored, never alone. I am lucky to have a good library near by and recently I bought a kindle. As I am planning to publish a book ( September maybe) I want to see how my book will look like on kindle. ;-)))
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I always say I’m gonna reduce my screen time but, ya know 🤣 I am trying to read more. Or at least listen to things versus looking at the screen.
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yes, i know what you mean. it takes time.
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I absolutely agree with this! Reading sparks creativity and is much more productive than scrolling for hours on social media. There are also so many genres to fit your mood, so there’s always something to learn whether it’s fiction or non fiction!
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yes! i’m such a mood reader myself so i’m love having an assortment of selections to choose from.
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This is something I want to start doing. Allocating some time for reading as I have some lovely books that I still need to read. Thank you for sharing.
Lauren x
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thanks for reading!
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Best. Post. EVER! Yes I love this so much.
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oh my gosh, thank you!!! 🙂 that means so much!
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Ever since I got a phone, I spend too much time for my comfort just checking up on digital things that do not need to be checked up on. Love your highlights on why reading instead of using one’s phone is a wonderful way to reduce screen-time while benefiting from exploring lovely stories. 🙂
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yes – i can totally get that especially since our phones are always with us. it’s a habit i’ve been trying to maintain. thanks so much for reading.
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Excellent post! It is amazing how we think we don’t have enough time to read anymore, then we look at our screen time…I am also trying to pick up a book more again!
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thanks! it’s a great routine to have.
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Reading is one of my favourite hobbies too! There’s just nothing better than a cup of tea and reading a book. I hadn’t thought of the many benefits though, thank you for sharing xx
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agreed! thanks for reading
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Completely agree with you on this
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thanks for reading and commenting!
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Great insights regarding reading. I definitely enjoy reading too. Like anything in life, you have the choice to make time for it. Everything in balance for sure. Thank you for sharing. 😊
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thanks for reading and commenting!
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I used to spend HOURS on TikTok but then I limited myself to 10 minutes a day and now I don’t have a desire to scroll through TikTok so I do have more time to read.
I agree that reading does make you smarter and I was able to answer the million dollar question on the Danish version of Who Wants to Be a Millionaire because I read it in a book haha (the contestant got it wrong though)
Reading makes me happier too and I enjoy talking about the books I’ve read!
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10 min?! i wish i had that control! lol but good for you! i’ll try and do that. yes – one of my favorite parts of reading is talking about them with other people.
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I love getting offline and picking up a good book too, it’s nice to have that time away from everything. I’m definitely guilty of endless scrolling, and like you say, for what reason? Definitely time wasting
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yes – it’s a nice escape. 🙂
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Excellent post! I am currently working on this myself and love to find articles that reaffirm my (good) choices. ☺️ Reading is soooooo much better than mindless scrolling!
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thanks! and yes so true!
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I totally love books too. I attend our local literature festival every year and I absolutely love it! I agree, you can tell a lot about a person by the type of book they read!
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a literature festival sounds like a lot of fun! 🙂 and yes, totally!
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Making comparisons rarely ever works out well. It’s a habit we all need to get out of. Mindless scrolling is something I need to work on as well. Whenever I’m watching TV I can’t help but scroll through Facebook just for something to do at the same time as watching TV
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I couldn’t agree more! I have read so many books this past year since I quit scrolling social media as much. Not only do I feel better about myself, but I also find myself thinking more about overall health than comparison to others.
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that’s so wonderful reading has given you this sense of understanding of yourself. 🙂 thanks for reading my post and commenting.
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I love this! I agree that reading more is possible if you try and make it a priority. I’ve recently done a bit of a digital declutter to try and stop the mindless scrolling, and so far it’s working really well! Definitely agree that reading makes you happier too. Thank you so much for sharing x
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thanks! a digital declutter is always a good idea. thanks for reading and commenting.
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I definitely need to stop scrolling and read more, I can definitely see how it would make you feel more creative and live more in the moment x
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yes. 🙂 thanks for reading and commenting.
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This was really helpful thank you a lot I’ve been far from books lately but I know I’m determined to go back to reading thanks💝
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Hope this inspires you to get back to it. 😊
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Excellent reminder!!
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thanks for reading.
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